Quote Of The Day
This one’s going to arouse debate, big time.

Sexually it is the woman’s responsibility to ensure that the man is satisfied, if she does not then she only has herself to blame if he is unfaithful.
— Anna Anka
Seriously old school and obviously not on the same page as Elin Woods (or 99.1 percent of women)…












December 8th, 2009 at 11:16 am
Old School but certainly true.
Biologically, a man needs to have sex with his partner to feel loved…
Thus if he is denied, he will go somewhere else…
December 8th, 2009 at 1:06 pm
She went on to suggest that a man’s infidelity is ultimately his wife’s fault.
Before betraying his wife and children, Tiger could have filed for divorce, citing his wife’s sexual restraint or negligence as a reason.
Did he betray Elin before or after the children were born?
Anna endorses the liberal/progressive position that humans are base creatures, devoid of an inherent dignity, and incapable of escaping our “programming”.
That said, Elin and Tiger should have been available to each other, mentally, emotionally, and physically. Elin should have realized the reality, we are sexual beings. Elin should respect Tiger, and Tiger should respect Elin. However, Tiger’s betrayal is inexcusable. He did have a choice.
December 8th, 2009 at 1:26 pm
I’m gonna share her thoughts with Miss T. I’ll let you know how it turns out……
December 8th, 2009 at 2:10 pm
I agree that women should be sexually responsive to their husbands, and that a lot of men first start to look elsewhere because they aren’t getting their needs/wants/desires met at home. But I don’t agree that if they aren’t getting it, that that gives men the “right” to look elsewhere. Most marriage vows promise fidelity (including sexual fidelity), and say, “as long as we both shall live,” not “as long as she puts out.”
Both sides have responsibilities in this matter. Men are not dogs or other animals that cannot control their “urge to merge”; they should act like it. But women shouldn’t be cold and cold-hearted, either.
December 8th, 2009 at 2:31 pm
Wow, this is ridiculous! Yes, married couples owe EACH OTHER a loving, faithful sexual relationship. Women want the same thing!
hat said have any of you had children? Once they are born, until they are no longer keeping you up at night, and sapping your last bit of strength during the day, all bets are off and the partners BOTH owe each other faithfulness while parenting takes their energies.
And it brings to mind this; that Tiger must have been having his affairs while she was pregnant and there’s no excuse for that, whatsoever! If he can’t keep it in his pants for the 9 months she’s keeping his beautiful BOUNCing baby in her body, (or at least the later more awkward months) he is a dead man!
December 8th, 2009 at 2:45 pm
From Miss T:
I think it is a 2 way street. So, I don’t agree with that statement totally. I think it is a responsibility that some women over look. I think it is an important part of a relationship, but I also think our society doesn’t take any commitment serious. We haven’t been taught not to go back on our word. We’ve been taught, if you’re not happy do something about it.
December 8th, 2009 at 2:48 pm
Tiger has been known to be a spoiled little brat back to the days he was in jr golf. He demands to have things his way all the time and this is no different.
Problem is he is no longer in control of what is going on in his life due to his own choices.
December 8th, 2009 at 2:52 pm
Bob-
Maybe its different in your world, but a recently married man with 2 kids who has NINE(or more) mistresses, is a Man Whore. Tiger needs professional help, he is sex addict with no moral standards. I mean really, a porn star?!
December 8th, 2009 at 3:35 pm
One more issue comes to mind. Have Tiger and his mistresses been tested for STDs and other diseases? Not only did he betray his wife and family, but he has opened her to the maladies accompanying his deviant behavior, and the inevitable consequences of overexposure. This behavior is deleterious to both homosexuals and heterosexuals alike.
What a wonderful boy, carrying infectious agents from one willing recipient to another.
These deviants are so fortunate that soon the burden of the consequences of their irresponsible behavior will be redistributed and carried by all unwitting members of society. It is the gift which keeps on giving.
December 8th, 2009 at 3:44 pm
That is how sin works, after all — the (relatively) innocent pay a significant part of the price.
December 8th, 2009 at 3:59 pm
I’m sorry, but just who IS Anna Anka and why is she significant?
December 8th, 2009 at 5:03 pm
It appears that Anna Anka is a blonde, nordic female who might have one day in the loooooong past been pretty… and she is not significant.
What she has said may be construed as significant, perhaps the Women’s Libbers are having a difficult time with it.
Personally, and having never had children, it is not only the woman’s obligation to satisfy her man, but to make sure she herself is satified. It’s in the physical makeup of our bodies. In fact, not providing sexual intercourse (or whatever they like) to one’s marriage partner is grounds FOR divorce.
Again, never having been pregnant, I don’t know the ‘beauty, of a big belly full of baby, but I guess if that is what the couple wants, it might be beautiful for them. But there is so much more than just the physical. Women, at least this one, finds the personal emotional and intellectual relationship important to get to the “Other” one….
So a guy can be married to a beauty queen but if he’s got a brain and she doesn’t, the physical would get old really quick, I reckon.
Guys? Am I wrong on that last point?
December 8th, 2009 at 5:37 pm
“Maybe its different in your world…”
Sherman, what did I write to deserve that?
Nick, Paul Anka was a popular singer back in the day.
Syble, you are right.
December 8th, 2009 at 6:07 pm
Ron White said it best. Paraphrased
“Im a pretty loyal dog, but you gata pet me every once in a while if you want to keep me under the porch.”
But then again, some men are just cheaters.
December 8th, 2009 at 6:10 pm
I was wondering who she was as well, so looked her up. I can’t believe that she’s younger than I am! I don’t exactly look like a spring chicken, but she looks rode hard and put up wet, to only be 38.
December 8th, 2009 at 6:39 pm
Syble:
You are right. I can’t speak for other men, but I want it all, including: emotional, mental, and physical intimacy. Either we share our lives with each other, or we remain friends. If there is nothing to share, or something is lacking, then what’s the point.
December 8th, 2009 at 6:48 pm
I’ve heard that some women are very good at pleasing their man and putting out, right up until the moment that Ring goes on.
December 8th, 2009 at 8:45 pm
PB, hard miles, many hard miles! N.N & Syble, there are many men out there that don’t understand females need emotional ties & that it is different for a man. Not to all, but a large percentage of young men especially, don’t need to an emotional connection with a female to have sex. That is why there will always be “Ladies of the Night”. The emotional connection comes in when the man figures out his mate is the most important person in the world. Then the bond becomes much stronger than the urge to just get laid. A lot of younger people think sex is a young person thing. It is important, but not the most important part of a “Marriage”, especially in later years. Then sex still happens, just not as often but still just as good for both. Without mutual respect, undying love & a strong emotional tie to each other, fidelity can’t & won’t last. Tiger’s problem, like many Celebrities, he has been coddled & pampered & they think they are the ones that are important. Their wants are more important than committing to one person. It will happen with Obama too, if it hasn’t already. Narcissistic people are too much into “ME”, I am the important one. No one is more important than my own desires.
December 8th, 2009 at 9:29 pm
“Biologically, a man needs to have sex with his partner to feel loved…”
being the 25 year old guy I am, I’m starting to feel that and some other contributing factors in order to feel “loved”
“He demands to have things his way all the time and this is no different.”
ya I’ve heard he once bought out a whole HOST of rooms at a hotel just to have some peace and quiet with the family at a resort..
“So a guy can be married to a beauty queen but if he’s got a brain and she doesn’t, the physical would get old really quick, I reckon.”
from my angle, that could be the case. I think the shallowest of guys would only keep a dim-witted trophy wife as just that – a trophy wife. sad…
I’m still looking for my intellectual equal and or superior to hopefully get a relationship going
“emotional, mental, and physical intimacy. Either we share our lives with each other, or we remain friends. If there is nothing to share, or something is lacking, then what’s the point.”
definitely agree
“I’ve heard that some women are very good at pleasing their man and putting out, right up until the moment that Ring goes on.”
really?
“The emotional connection comes in when the man figures out his mate is the most important person in the world. Then the bond becomes much stronger..”
I definitely know THAT feeling, but no female has ever wanted to pony up the emotion return that I feel and sadly it seems to get worse with each new young woman I’m interested in…
Gotta say though, this is a FANTASTIC and eye-opening discussion, for me anyway. I need all the information I can get on personal matters like this
December 8th, 2009 at 11:08 pm
What I got from the quote is that Ms. Anka was putting the word out that she understands men’s needs, and she’s available to meet them.
Seriously, I don’t understand people’s inability to delay gratification or to have some self-control, as far as their loved ones go. Case in point: An aquaintance divorced her husband after their second child died. He’d slept around during her first pregnancy because he wasn’t getting what he “needed.” He got herpes and gave it to her; their newborn ended up with herpes infection in the brain and liver. The worst part is that he denied it right up until the week before their baby died, and his family thought SHE was the carrier.
And the most PATHETIC women I know are in their 50s, bound and determined to dress and act young. One of them divorced her husband because she lost weight and he didn’t (he’s still a good-looking guy, kind of like a black Baldwin brother, if you can imagine). The other divorced her husband after he was in a car-accident and he couldn’t take care of her physical needs (which she told everyone over drinks after work – yuck! What a way to ruin Happy Hour!). They’re both getting older and unhappier, and I think they would have been better off if they’d worked on their marriages.
Then again, I’m not married and not likely to be, the way things are going. Many of my peers come from divorced or never-married parents, so the men I meet either idealize marriage or think it’s a trap. My grandparents were married 76 years when grandma died, and they taught me that marriage is a lot of work, but worth it.